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Friday, April 3, 2009

So I didn't grind him...

Kini big deal?

continued from my last...

Anyway I was at another party where the DJ played mostly crunk and hip hop I was definitely in my dance mode with a bunch of other girls when a few guys joined in and disappeared with some of the girls to their quiet grinding corners.

Girls can be wicked when guys are thrown in the equation.

So, this my so-called acquaintance who's my best guy friend during the week (we rarely talk during weekends) comes to dance. As my buddy, I danced without even thinking; facing him just enjoying myself without bothering if he was in front of me or not. He vexed and wanted me to turn around. Oya o! I turned but lai lai, I'm a temple. Ok, I was just having fun dutty whining and cranking Soujah-boy, didn't having to be all over his thighs.

(He dey crase think say I no get sense).

I continued dancing mindlessly with no body contact (though in my mind I was just laughing at the deprived poor guy...!) Thing is 80% of the girls there would jump at the opportunity to dance with this dude. Apparently he is some hot somebody. Sha, I saw a friend and ran to say hi. I'm sure he was singing praises.

Okay, this guy can be stand out as a man-skank during parties (take it from me. I'll rather he get paid for the lap dances he gives those his girls, then he can concentrate on that side hustle not my inability to satisfy his grindly desires). The music started crunking my head for me and I left. Later I saw (in a bulletin) that he was leading/ preaching at evening service in our school church (I'm still trying not to judge oh!)

From Monday till Friday, we'll see hug, talk about personal issues and once people even thought we were dating. We rarely talk during weekend parties. Now he has a girlfriend so I'm free of grind-threats... though he's hardly faithful to her in that department.

Hmmmm!

16 comments:

Brown Sugar said...

thats why I don't frequent "youth" parties like that. if you don't grind..you mess up their "flow".
I'd rather go to parties with people my parents age...there no one asks you to grind...only thing you need to be aware of is 40 something years old men looking for young wives...lol

Lolia said...

Ahahahaha @ "He dey crase think say I no get sense"

Me too, I'm going to try not to judge but really...preaching?? Okay oh...

Meanwhile no darling you're not crazy...x

justdoyin said...

No dear, you are not crazy...lol...in fact, u r very rite 2 refuse to "grind"...lol...
btw, I've just awarded you...HSA...do the 10 honest things meme...

BSNC said...

lol you made the right choice and no you are not crazy.. far from it

RocNaija said...

Nope!! You're definitely not crazy..
You're funny though... Lovin' the sense of humour!

Writefreak said...

I don't think you're crazy! I like that you stand firm on your convictions!

Beyond said...

Don't think so..... i lost a guy-friend recently cos i didn't dance with him at a party.....don't know whatz up with that n i really don't care.....

Buttercup said...

men are really from another planet..

ok, SOME men..

Bohlar said...

lol...no you are not...

Deedo said...

it was ok you didn't do what he wanted you to do.

Omo Oba said...

i admire your strength. u are so not crzy, it is the choice you have made, and I pray God gives u the grace to carry thru till the aisle. Keep on sista.

bob-ij said...

LOL ... I have a phobia for random grinding. I always think I'm being childish but I don't like randomness is this grinding business!!

x!

O'Dee said...

You ar enot crazy, I wont grind any guy either. I have actually never done it.

Black Berry said...

me too-im not trying to judge o!! but u were at the party dancing with him too sha!

xo

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

naughty, naughty....

Original Mgbeke said...

Nope. Not crazy at all.
Every man wants to grind to very useless songs that dont even require grinding sef, like soulja boy. Yeyerism!
It is indeed hard not to judge when I see church workers acting the fool at parties. Ah well...