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Wednesday, February 11, 2009

One Abuja guy....

I met this guy through a guy friend. He was very posh, classy, far from razz. Money and exposure can do anything. I was impressed because I'm allergic to razzness (you'll even be wonder why when you see me oh! lolia! lol!). He was definitely NOT for me considering age and my immature tendencies, I handled with caution. Knowing this guy friend of mine, I knew where the brother hung out, the diddy lifestyle and all. Hustler, trust-fund baby, hardworker, liver of the good life, fresh out of university type. I think he went to Igbenidion.

He gave me his phone to put my number in. I put my number in and flashed my phone to get his number. The atmosphere didn't tolerate fronting.

He called. I didn't call back didn't want to sing to his melody.

He called again and started inventing gist that he supposedly gave me during his last phonecall. I'm far from stupid so I know what gist was transmitted to my ears. I was confused. I think he'd talked to too many girls.

He called to ask if he could some take me out. I was busy and seriously, I knew I was too stupid to be able to handle this one. I might shiver and faint during dinner, or shout Igbo Church songs during a movie, or worse case have to reveal my celibacy agendas...I'm a little nuts sometimes.

He called to ask why I didn't ever call him back.

He called to ask if I could come by and see him when he was hanging out near my house.

He stopped calling.


I saw him a year later during hols. Then saw him like all-the-time. He was kinda popular in his church (House on the Rock), in Ceddi Plaza joints, even my NYSC Corper friend knew him for 'forex' buying from the bank for his intercontinental vacations. I just said hi when we bumped. He confronted me saying "you act like you don't know me!" No one around would even think that it was HE that used to call me the way he did. Only God knows what Omobaba wanted.

He was too old for me. Though he's only a few years older than boo. My current limit stops at 24 until I'm ripe for marriage and become less picky.

Then I saw his pics on facebok with some chic I know. Chic was busy looking fly. They were really hanging out in one of those posh Abuja lounges. I think she might have felt accomplished hanging out with him. I wonder how they met necause she's soooo my age. (I shalt judge not!)

I just cringed! I added him on facebook and with the help of stalker mechanism, I know that he is a socialite, frequent wedding attender, mad party goer, globe trotter/ frequent traveller, ladies' love, and swagger machine....

I still stored his number in my phone. For future networking never know when I'll start calling him.

Whatever!!!!!!!Maybe I'm just paranoid.

21 comments:

~Sirius~ said...

Ey!...........Strictlyfor Networking purposes I hope!

These Socialites have a way of being more selfish than other people.

Danny Bagucci said...

Guess that's another use for Facebook.... investigative journalism...lol

Mika's Thought's... said...

That is definitely the kind of guy you keep around for networking purposes only. Don't lose his number abeg. He might be useful for something in the future. For now hes just a typical playa (In my head). lol

Toni said...

u got ur very last statement right... Paranoid, that is. I mean, what is it with chics and frontin'? then again, you and the dude cld make a better pair of Fronters!

Do ur thing. I ain't mad atcha

C. Ezeh said...

No u are not paranoid!

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

lol! well, networking is always a reason to hang on to a number and ol' boy seems like a social butterfly, so...

Hope all is well.

Tiwa said...

gosh u sounded just like me in this post!

nyways, yeah you should definitely hang on to him for future networking, might prove very useful

on another note, i think u may have put him way up high on a pedestal in ur mind n hence ur uwillingness to hang with him, considering the fact that he was hanging with your agemate friend, im sure you were definetly not "too stupid" to handle him.

Teeee said...

You remember your good thing with your boo.... I'm also sure you don't want to end up on GGN as his latest conquest xx

Olufunke said...

Like everyone has said, contact details of people could be kept for networking.

Wish you all the best

Writefreak said...

Well...networking is never a bad idea...but make sure it's only for networking purposes o..lol

simeone said...

maybe omababa just wanted to network too...lol

rethots said...

Persistence breaks even the most resolute heart....

zara (my alter ego) said...

lol.. this post just makes me think one thing.. shallow.. no offense.. but the whole fly-ness.. bad arse.. swash buckle swagger turns me off! i cant even talk to guys like that@

Severus Snape said...

Really...
That guy must be something else and I'm surprised you added him to your phonebook at last.

Severus Snape said...

Well, let it be networking strictly, sha...lol

Adaeze said...

Hey!I believe it's my first time commenting here but I can't be sure, lol. Have been reading up on your blog for a little while now.I agree with most here, networking purposes only.Guys like that are never as good as they appear to be.And I'm sure ur not "too stupid"!More like the other way around,lol

Abujamaiden said...

Sirius& Severus-Yes, Strictly Networking.

Danny-Facebook has many uses.

Mika-He seems to be one of those players that uses his smarts/ epizzy to attract women.

Toni-Ah ah e mi? But I had to take causion, I was 18 when I first met him.

Tiwa- that my age mate and I are not the same. Wonder where they even met because I asked and she didn't talk.

Tee- Oh I have a boyfriend! Whoops!

Zara- Not that kind of swagger. Like very nerdy, classy kind. Lol!

Adaeze- please keep coming back!

Buttercup said...

Hmm networking, huh? Lol..

How r u anywayz?

Buttercup said...

Hmm networking, huh? Lol..

How r u anywayz?

Muse said...

there are times when we are jealous without knowing it. are ye?

AnyaPosh said...

lol...I went to house on the rock when I was in 9ja so I may no this guy... hmm, wow @ swagger machine! I probably know him...plz gimme initials..heehee.
Anyhoo...I miss Abuja mehn. Hearing you talk about it makes me want to just crawl back home to my safe life... maitama, church, ceddi plaza, tucano, safi lounge, church, home, ceddi plaza...LOL! I miss that city tew much!