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Friday, November 21, 2008

Final Update: Break up!

My break up series has come to an end. I think my boyfriend is fabulous!

Example: He was wondering why I wasn't replying his texts while I was like "why isn't he texting me?" Network/ cell phone issues, My phone hasn't gotten/received any international texts and when I send them, they don't get to the recipient. AT&T has really been messing up!

I'm now broke and he's been doing the calling.

He really stepped up his game. Actually he's no longer broke and has been calling me A LOT more often as in I'm full of smiles. We chat (I mean long chat) more than before so I can now study in peace without getting upset over him. Keep reciprocating dude!!!

I'll make a few vows on blogville on what my next actions in the next weeks will be.


I vow to NOT stalk/ check his Facebook page everyday. Instead every few days. Lol!


I vow to TRY not to call him everyday. Alternate calling and texting. I don't want to get too attached to someone far away.


I vow to REDUCE the amount of money I spend on him. I promised MissLove and I shopping therapy so gingers crossed, I'll try to lower the calling cards $$$ from $5-15 to $3-5 (Progress huh?)


I vow to be understanding by being a more matured girlfriend. He's going through a lot so I'll bring more positive energy when I call him. When he's done, I'll pump him with my problems.


I will work on my temper. See a shrink maybe. I have the tendency to overreact, breakdown and cry or something depressing like that when something trivial happens.


I VOW TO FOCUS ON MY REAL FRIENDS AND FAMILY, READ MY BOOKS. Stick to priorities.

AND PRAY. Prayer is the key right? God, please help me get myself together!


Hopefully this hould be the last of my current rantings on my relationship.


XOXO

18 comments:

Tina said...

Prayer is defintely the key. I'm so happy for you babes. He seems like such a good guy...plus you two are alike. No more break updates but MAKE UP updates!!

aloted said...

Good stuff!!

I hope u are going to keep to ur vows...anyway since u declared it here it means you are now accountable to us ;o)

All the best in ur rel.

Original Mgbeke said...

Amen to your resolutions. It's all about making things work, make it work o so we can look at una wedding website when the time comes. :D

Lolia said...

Awwwww I'm happy for you! I wish I had vowed to do all those things when my ex-boyfriend and I were still together, it would certainly have resulted in a lot less pain for me. Hope everything works out for you! :)

Naughty Eyes said...

Vows are easy to make, easy to break. I hope you keep to these ones like the virginity vow.

Danny Bagucci said...

Hey -- good to know its all sorted out now.. Nothing that a good talk can't resolve aight... Keep groving...

wordsmith said...

Good for you~ I'm glad you guys didnt break up because of misunderstandings... :)

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

good to see you sounding happy! Hope all is well!

Emeka Amakeze said...

Nice resolution! I hope it becomes your last rantings on your relationships.

doll said...

hmm hopefully

ShonaVixen said...

Just pray for the strength to stick to the vows hon...good that the relationship is going strong..yay to love!!!

Omo calabar. said...

Lol stick to the vows o.

~Sirius~ said...

Awww....why am I just seeing this.
I like how the tables have turned.

Buttercup said...

Yay! Happy for u hon! Good luck keepin the vows..

Buttercup said...

Yay! Happy for u hon! Good luck keepin the vows..

afunto` baby™ said...

Goood I like that! Stick to it! and like Tina says Pray is the key..

dScR?Be said...

feelin ur blog!

Rita said...

So this is what I have been missing? Let me go and read the other posts. So happy for you.